[Ipg-smz] Going incognito Update

Christine Hall christine at fossforce.com
Thu Jul 25 16:07:33 UTC 2019


Mother's breathing tube was pulled on Tuesday night, her vitals are 
slowly lowering, and she's being kept comfortable with the best hospital 
drugs available. At least one person from the family is with her 
round-the-clock.

I returned home last night. If she's still with us on Saturday I'll 
drive back up to do what I can to help.

I saw my youngest brother James, whom I haven't seen 15 years.

Christine Hall
Publisher & Editor
FOSS Force: Keeping tech free
http://fossforce.com

On 7/25/19 11:58 AM, Christine Hall via Ipg-smz wrote:
> I come from a large family (I'm the oldest of nine), and none of us 
> consider my mother to have been a good mom and we all recognize that the 
> was very likely mentally ill, so thankfully I have no such expectations 
> with which to deal.
> 
> Christine Hall
> Publisher & Editor
> FOSS Force: Keeping tech free
> http://fossforce.com
> 
> On 7/23/19 1:35 PM, Esther Schindler via Ipg-smz wrote:
>> On Jul 23, 2019, at 10:30 AM, Steven J. Vaughan-Nichols via Ipg-smz 
>> <ipg-smz at netpress.org <mailto:ipg-smz at netpress.org>> wrote:
>>> My mom passed recently and we weren't close either, but it can still 
>>> hit you hard.
>>
>> Indeed.
>>
>> There’s also the battling emotions of “Everyone expects me to be 
>> heartbroken and I don’t know what to say.” That’s how I felt after my 
>> mother-in-law died. I didn’t shed a tear, but everybody was braced for 
>> me to be upset. Dealing with their expectations was… odd.
>>
> 



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